I either believed myself unworthy of partnership or that men don't want it, so by being the cool girl, I must be more desirable. I can tell you that outlook is not working for me. If I desire partnership, I have to demand it, just like with anything I want in this world. #iownit
I do not see sexuality as all or nothing. It is simply one strand that weaves in the tapestry of our existence and being. I can also say that walking through this world and powerfully owning your sexuality and body is no easy feat and any one who attempts to say that being sexy cheapens a woman is not looking at how difficult it is to truly express your authentic self.